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HOW does
Stepping Stones work? Introduction
People feel safe because most sessions take place in groups of their own gender and age, with facilitators of the same gender and similar age. Participants also enjoy the sessions because there is a lot of fun and laughter as well as the more challenging work. On this web page you will find:
Stepping Stones was developed between 1993 and 1995, mainly in Uganda, where we worked with a rural community, comprising Muslims, Protestants and Catholics, all living together in the same village. The package was designed in response to the vulnerability of most women, men and young people in decision-making regarding sexual behaviour, through men's gendered patriarchal domination of women and older people's generally repressive attitudes towards youth. Thus the package was designed from the outset to work both simultaneously and separately with older men, younger men, older women and younger women in the community, in order to give them all private time and space in their own self-defined gender- and age-based peer groups. Here they could explore and analyse their own situations for themselves, without threat of domination or ridicule from others. The diagram shown below explains how the original package was formed, with peer groups meeting by themselves for several sessions (defined by letters) and then meeting regularly in carefully facilitated plenary sessions to share and compare their own discussions, analyses and learning experiences, in a mutually respectful way. Thus the whole original workshop, which lasted for 18 sessions, spread over at least 9 weeks, was designed as a "fission and fusion" model, starting with, recognising and validating different experiences and perspectives and then enabling those to be brought together to find common ground and agreement.
The very
format of the peer groups gives separate, equally recognised space to
the different groups. Then the structure of the several plenary sessions,
which bring all the peer groups together to share and compare what they
have been doing, builds and steadily reinforces mutual care and respect
between the different groups, across the generations as well as across
the genders. The combination of these two processes, challenging gender
and age norms together, lends a particular strength to the effectiveness
of this work.
Firstly, Stepping Stones views all the people involved, both old and young, as actors central to their own lives, rather than as empty vessels for our endless health education messages to fill. Click here for a diagram of the "petrol pump" model of behaviour change Throughout the workshop process they are conducting their own research on their own lives, exploring and analysing how local historically and culturally constructed contexts have shaped the way in which they identify themselves and relate to others around them. The facilitator who guides each peer group through the exercises in each session, guides this exploration. The optional workshop video shows some examples of this. It is important that the process of change is given the opportunity to happen at multiple levels. It is virtually impossible for individuals - especially women and young people - to change the way they relate to others by themselves, without the support of their peers, their family and their wider community. Men also face huge peer pressure to conform to the norms of their peers. If they decide, for instance, to help with household tasks, or not to hit their wives, they can be jeered at and shunned by their peers. This is why the Stepping Stones process is structured to promote changes in attitudes and actions at multiple levels of the community, simultaneously, as shown below. In this diagram, the sizes, shapes and strengths of these circles will vary with the gender of "me", and with context and over time.
The optional workshop video shows some examples of this.
During these exercises, the men have to act at times as women, or as young people, and vice-versa. They learn to see how life feels from these different perspectives of greater or lesser power than they normally experience in their own lives. They learn how both anger and aggression can not only harm others greatly, but can also be just as self-destructive as can passivity and submission. All participants, old or young, male or female, can start to dare to take control of their own lives rather than feeling that their lives are in control of them. They learn to swim against the current, and to find the stepping stones across the river of life, which can and should be full of pleasure as well as pain, if only they have the means to find the pleasure for themselves. The optional workshop video shows some examples of these activities.
See the optional workshop video for an illustration of this.
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